Books

We’ve come a long way as women. But most dating advice? It’s still stuck in the 20th century. It’s all about “appealing to men.” You’ve got to be a “catch.” You’ve got to be attractive. You’ve got to have this amaaaazing life. You’re competing with other women. You’ve got to stand out. You’ve got to make sure he’d …

It’s 2005. I’m in my first job as a dating expert. I know that if I’m going to succeed at this job, I can’t just study books and online courses. I’ve got to date like my career depends on it. Luckily, it’s the golden era of online dating. This is twenty years ago, before dating …

When I began researching my book Unleash Your Pleasure Power, I uncovered some hard truths that made me a little sad. There’s a reason women care so much about what men want in bed. It’s because we’ve been taught that what happens in the bedroom is for men, not for us. Research shows that many women …

Twenty years ago, I sat down with fellow relationship expert Andrew Rusbatch to co-write the book that would make my name in my new career, Save My Marriage Today! At the time, Save My Marriage Today! was already an established brand. I was brought on board to reinvent the course so that it reflected the very …

Two of the things I struggled most with in the first half of my life were my weight and my relationships. I didn’t believe men could be attracted to me. I didn’t believe I’d ever stop struggling with my weight. After all, I had proof. I was boyfriend-less all during high school. Despite all the …

I began my career twenty years ago working for 000Relationships, a tiny internet company with big ambitions on the other side of the world. Its mission was to empower people’s lives through creating quality information products, and I was brought on as a writer. Fresh from my M.A. and passionate about personal development, I couldn’t …

It’s that time of year again. All the yummy food in the grocery store aisles, tempting us to indulge. Frosted cookies and heavenly pastries and foil-wrapped chocolates… Pumpkin spice lattes and eggnog topped with frothy whipped cream… But if you say yes to pleasure, you know you’ll pay for it come the new year. Is …