We’ve come a long way as women.
But most dating advice? It’s still stuck in the 20th century.
It’s all about “appealing to men.”
You’ve got to be a “catch.” You’ve got to be attractive. You’ve got to have this amaaaazing life.
You’re competing with other women. You’ve got to stand out. You’ve got to make sure he’d never stray.
Really???
Let’s be honest, that’s a great way to spend all your time and energy worrying about what men think of you. Because heaven forbid you focus on what makes you happy, right?
That’s exactly why I wrote The Pleasure Principle.
It’s the ANTI-dating advice that puts you in the power seat.
Instead of obsessing over how to please men, I wanted you to start thinking about how they can please you… and how they can do it even better. 😉
Because your pleasure is powerful.
Men CRAVE seeing the pleasure they give us.
There are two things good men want more than anything else:
1. He wants you to like him.
Not just as a partner, but as a person. He wants to know, without a doubt, that you really like him. Even if things didn’t work out, you’d still think he’s pretty great. And you’re not afraid to show it.
2. He wants to bring you pleasure.
He wants to see that you enjoy his company. You enjoy him. His conversation brings you pleasure. His jokes bring you pleasure. His touch brings you pleasure.
But what does traditional love advice tell us to do?
- “Play hard to get.”
- “Hide your feelings.”
- “Let him do all the pursuing.”
Groan…. 🤦♀️
If you follow that advice, you’re basically telling him you’re not interested. And that’s a surefire way to miss out on something truly beautiful.
But with The Pleasure Principle, you’ll learn how to:
- Unleash your Inner Bad Girl, who knows EXACTLY what she wants.
- Tap into a state of pleasure that makes you even MORE gorgeous and radiant than you already are.
- Use pleasure to get over the bumps and conflicts that are a natural part of every relationship.
It’s time to stop settling for advice that keeps you small.
