resisting what is

Can’t Accept It’s Over

When the worst thing possible has happened to you, all you can think about is…

July 2, 2018
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Not good enough

When Nothing You Do is…

John was happy, confident and successful when he met the woman he would marry. She…

December 4, 2017
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Death of a marriage

The Death of a Marriage

"Our marriage ended when I lost respect for my husband," Jan said thoughtfully. "I loved…

November 26, 2017
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Get over it

Just Get Over It

"You gotta be tough." "Can you get over it already?" "No one likes a victim."…

November 13, 2017
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I’m Right, You’re Wrong

It's one of the biggest struggles in every relationship:¬†How do you get your partner to…

November 12, 2017
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Be brave

Stop Being Brave

I was in the bedroom, sobbing into a pillow to muffle the sounds. I told…

October 29, 2017
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There’s Nothing Wrong, Really

"Our marriage is just fine. I don't know what he's on about. He should be…

October 25, 2017
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I’m Not Going to Argue…

Ever had someone say that to you? You're having a discussion, and it's going in…

October 15, 2017
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Counselor office

Why Counseling is So Scary

I grew up in a family that used therapy as a threat. If there was…

October 12, 2017
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When It’s Time to Let…

It's the hardest decision anyone will ever make: Should you stay in your marriage ...…

October 11, 2017
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